I suddenly find myself with 3 very different situations which require some deep mulling.

They are difficult decisions because there is a conflict of how I feel versus what I feel I should do!
Where is that line between caring for someone and not listening to my inner voice.
Where is that line of how much I am needed versus how much I think I am needed!
Where is that line of how far do I stick my nose in to someone else’s business?

To help me, I created a matrix, and I share it here in case it might assist you too!

As you probably know the Chi of Mind Chi means your energy, your mental energy.
You are aware of the Chi chatter that is going on in your head and constantly builds your energy up, or depletes it.

I tuned in to three Chi voices:
1. My heart Chi – the caring for the other(s) and me
2. My brain Chi – what are the pros and cons of the situation and
3. My gut Chi – how does my stomach feel when I think about it.

This is the link for a short Chi Chat video as I go through the ramifications for each situation.

Here is the outcome and the actions I need to take to move forward.

Please let me know if you think this may help you and any difficult decision making you may have to do!

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